Am I doing what’s right?
so since i was 15 my dad pushed me to start working and I’m 22 now. But I’ve worked for my dad for three years now and I’m absolutely drained and tired of it. It’s not a hard labor job. It’s one of the easiest i’ve ever had. But I get the shit end. I work every weekend. I’ve worked 7 days or 8 days in a row. We don’t get any breaks to even eat for 15 minutes. We have to eat while on the clock so if a customer comes in you have to take care of them and not eat. I’ve just gone through a lot in my life the past 3 years and I’m burnt out. I’ve done what everyone else has expected me to. I usually back down and say “you’re right” against what I wanted to do. But this time I’m wanting to quit my job and stay at home. Cook,clean and stuff. My boyfriend got a good job a state job so he’s going to make a lot of money. Enough where he’s comfortable with me not having a job. He’s ALWAYS taken care of me and done everything he can do to make me happy. We started off a rough patch and now it’s much better. My dad seems to literally never be happy with anything I do. I got an apartment at 20 years old for a year and he chewed me out. I got a house at 22 he pointed out every flaw. My boyfriend got a job a good ass job and he says “I give him 3 months and he’ll quit”. I love my dad. I almost lost him. So I do everything I can to make sure he dies happy. But I’m not happy. I come home stressed out because of the job. It’s affected my relationship. I’ve mentioned quitting to my mom and she isn’t really supporting. She’s worried he’ll kick me out and I’ll be homeless. My family will basically try to convince me to not quit. So it makes me think I don’t need to even though I genuinely want to.
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