Ladies helppppp😭😭

Ok so I never had any problems with sex especially when it comes to him entering but now its like everytime I have sex I have pain when he firsts starts to enter and when he finally does the pain goes away and I can enjoy myself the only downside is that I have to deal with bleeding and a little bit of burning when I pee a day after same thing with my dildo its like my gurl is trying to block it from going in and I'll have to force it idk wtf is going on why is this happening all of sudden it seems like my gurl is tightening herself back up