Polyamorous Relationship???????

Hey everyone!

So let me start off by saying my boyfriend and I have been together for around 5 years now. We’ve been through hell and back together and honestly he’s my best friend. However, without getting into too much detail, recently I’ve been longing for more in our relationship and with myself personally. I’ve had sex with women multiple times in the past and I love making love to women, and to be honest I miss it. I have been open about this with my partner, and discussed that I was having desires to pleasure women. To my surprise, he also expressed interest in bringing another into our sex life. We even went as far as discussing rules and what we would expect from one another/the other person involved.

We would love to find another woman who would be open and interested in having sex with me, a woman. The woman we bring into our sex life would have no sexual connection with my partner, only myself, and vice versa. Honestly it would be great to find someone to build a real friendship with, and have a friends with benefits kind of scenario? Or even if we could find another couple who would be interested in myself and the other female having s3x with all people involved in an agreement with the rules of the relationship.

Any who, I came here to ask advice or and tips that anyone could give me if anyone has been in a similar situation as mine. How do we go about finding someone? How do we set ground rules for the relationship? I don’t want things to get messy as I feel this could really be a great thing for our relationship.

Thanks in advance to any input or any help you can give me as this is new territory for both of us! 🙂