so me and my boyfriend just started school a couple days ago. we go to separate schools and he was telling me about this exchange student he met in his class. he goes in to tell me how she doesn’t have any friends and how he always sees her sitting alone. so a day later he asks her for her snap. which i didn’t find out until i asked about it. i didn’t find out until i saw that she had snap chatted him. so i confronted him about it and he told me. i wouldn’t have gotten upset if he just told me or asked me beforehand what he was planning on doing but i had to find out on my own that it happened. this really hurt and he apologized many times. but idk to explain it but i just have a weird feeling ya know. he also told me how his grandma wanted him to invite her over for dinner but he said he wasn’t comfortable with that and didn’t want to be that close. which is odd to me why he would ask for her socials. i forgave him but it’s like i don’t feel the same way about him anymore. this has happened a couple of times (not this bad) but where he doesn’t ask me if i’m comfortable in certain situations. idk what to do and i think i’m still processing what’s going on