So we been together for 12 years....we have 3 kids and 2 of the 3 were just born within 2 years ago...so im still in PP stages. My hormones suck...my sex drive is GOD AWFUL. Like literally non existent. I can't find ANYTHINGGGG that can get me going. We tried everything up under the sun x 5000 million times... Its starting to really affect us & our relationship...moreso him bc he's a guy that just obviously can't understand post partum and hormones. I can't Cum, I can't orgasm no matter if I do it or if he does it (which is strange bc he used to be able to w/ no issues), which definitely means I'm dry as all hell even with using lube onto of lube and using lube is starting to gross me out and it barely helps me in general. It still hurts constantly. Like very very bad ....I can't do 95% of positions bc they hurt. I haven't been able to do doggy for like 2+ years bc of the PAIN .....so we have sex sadly the same way each & every single time. That doesn't help either. Running out of options and im not sure how much longer we can keep doing this tbh. These last two babies took everything from me...literally EVERYTHING. I dont feel the same, I just feel soooo different. I've just came to accept that this just may be the new me I guess....I can't control that 😬🥺