Doner sperm

Me and my husband only have 1 option for a family our ivf doctor said doner sperm due to husband having low sperm and mortality idk how to feel about it we both don't we are open to it but are unsure please if you have done a soner sperm can you let me no your experience how you feel what was it like how did you make the decision lol what im asking is please tell me your story experience 😊