Hi ladies!, okay so I have this guy I’ve been talking to and we’ve been dating for about 2 months now and we were having a conversation today about me starting birth control so we could be become more intimate and he completely shut it down and said,

“ we’re not having any sex anytime soon so babe just get that out of your head for right now and just focus on your weight loss journey and by the time you get that all together and your satisfied with your results and if you still want to get on BC then Ill support it. I just feel like birth control would make it harder for you by slowing down your metabolism and ruining your shape “

He also shut down the idea of plan b’s and when it came to condoms? We both don’t like them .

So idk if I should be happy he’s considering my health and saying we could wait? Or if I should be hurt and offended by what he said?

Idk any advice would help ):