Period or broken hymen?

I had sex for the first time ever 4 days ago and I spotted for a bit that night and then after we went at it again the next morning, a few hours later the bleeding got heavier. My period was due in 4 days from the day I had sex and I’m still bleeding now. I also feel quite bloated and I’m getting some cramping that comes and goes.

Has anyone else experienced this after their first time? Is it my period or my hymen? We used a condom btw and it didn’t break