I’m having my preventative cerclage this Friday at 12:30pm. I’ll have it same day and leave same day once my spinal wears off. With my son, I had an emergent cerclage, was in the hospital for a few days and had a spinal headache that lasted a week. It was all scary and traumatic for me. This time I’m sure won’t be as scary. However, my husband wants to work overtime that night. 8pm-3am downtown at some bars. He’s a police officer. I hate when he works downtown anyway but I did ask him not to the day of my surgery. We got into a huge fight. He said it’s not like I’m having open heart surgery. So yea. I’m upset. And I’m wondering, should I be? And let me just say, we have had the WORST year of my life. He cheated on me. More than once. Got fired because of it. I have been through hell. Things were improving. Now I’m pregnant and I feel like he’s turning back into the cheating, ass hole he once was. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be fine. But we do have a 3-year old and idk. It would just be nice to have my husband home. At this point though, I’m seriously contemplating driving myself there and back and leaving him out of it. This isn’t the marriage I thought I’d ever have.