Working mom and stay at home dad

So I work roughly 45 hours a weeks and have Friday and Saturday off. I work from 12:00pm-9:00pm. My husband stay home and watches the kids. Im getting upset because he does the bare minimum. Maybe some dishes gets the girls lunch and dinner what ever is easiest for him. He then puts the girls to sleep at 5:00pm and they dont sleep until 7:00pm depending on how tired they are. He then will play video games until 2 am stated his insomnia keeps home up. They wake up at 4:30-6:00 am.

Is it fair to have it to where we each sleep in every other day. I dont go to sleep until midnight getting my stuff done and relaxing after work. So the days he sleeps in I get maybe 4-5 hours of sleep before I work a full shift. I also have to wake him up and it takes him anywhere from 30mins to an hour to get up. Is that fair?