My husband left — please help

My husband and I just celebrated are one year the past few months have been ruff with work and finances. I have been stressed and so has he. We argue but we always apologize and he is always like I already forgot and I always make sure and ask are u sure u don’t want to talk about it more. We got in a huge fight Monday night and He never responded the whole time. The next morning he didn’t say anything and pretty much acted as moral and he knows that that just makes me even more mad and so I blew up on him. He left while I was at work. I came home and all his stuff was gone except the things I had bought him while we were dating. He cashed out half of our savings and never responded. I finally had a friend that got through and he said he was headed home (which is across the country). He said he wants space. Idk what to do. His parents have never really liked me and I worry him being with them and them encouraging him leaving.