Friendly advice
Hello everyone, I would like your friendly Input on my current situation. LONG POST
My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for a little over a year now. This month I really thought it was it! I had a gut feeling. I went and had blood work done to confirm if I was pregnant, they sent me my HCG results. Unfortunately I read them wrong.. so when I saw them I THOUGHT it was positive. I never felt so happy in my life... 30 minutes later doctor said it’s actually negative. I was HEARTBROKEN. I cried all night and to the next day.
I then told my best friend about it and she just kind of brushed it off. While I’m at work she sent me a picture of HER positive pregnancy test. (It was a faint line but you can clearly see it). I told her I saw two lines and ended the conversation at that. After that I honestly broke down. I was crying non stop at work. She then sends me more pictures of this positive test she has and is asking if I can see the lines again... (all within the same hour mind you) I Finally had to text her saying “hey I want to be happy for you right now but I’m still pretty torn up about my ‘false’ pregnancy, please talk your husband” and she apologized. But this still shook me up. I’ve vented to her for months about wanting a baby and I felt like I was so close this month that it honestly hurt me a lot when she sent me her positive after telling her how broken I felt.
As her friend I am truly happy for her, but I felt her timing was off.. My question is, should I have been supportive of her and set my feelings aside or are mine pretty valid?
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