Ok ladies I'm seeing alot of posts about crazy stuff so I figured this might help break it down.

IF your boyfriend is asking you to do something that seems negative or you're about to do something for a boyfriend that has a take away (when you remove something from your life) OR ANYTHING LIFE CHANGING, give it a second thought please.

DO NOT have your boyfriends pull out your IUD.. goto your doctor. Obviously that is dangerous. Especially when your boyfriend tells you the next day he doesnt even want kids yet. So that was all for nothing...

IF YOUR BOYFRIEND tells you to do something, but won't do the same if you suggest it to them, obviously they're trash. Throw them out. DONT QUIT GOOD JOBS FOR YOUR BOYFRIENDS... your boyfriend told you to request sundays off (is mostly reasonable request) but you got scared and quit? Talk about being over-dramatic . But he was trash anyway. So now you have trashy boyfriend and your broke.

And obviously if you are using no form of birth control at all, and your bf is finishing in you 4 to 5 times a day, yes you're going to end up pregnant. That'll be a good way to make the sex stop real quick since you can't control yourself... (anyone else see that post)

Ladies we have to be smarter about these things. Really think about what your doing before you do it. We are the ones that carry the burdens. Often times we have this need to want to please our significant others. We think of them in every outfit choice, or hair choice. We ask them what they want to eat and we make it. Often times us ladies are great partners, but make sure you're getting the same back! And use your head. Should I really quit a decent paying job? Should I really have my boyfriend rip something out of my vagina that a doctor had to insert? Should I really be having completely unprotected sex if we're not ready for a baby yet?