Weekend Sex Buddies? Is it unrealistic?

Question

So this guy I’ve talked to for 2 yrs roughly asked if I’d ever sleep with him on the weekends. While we ideally would both have time if we lived closer, I honestly did not know what to say. We’d still be friends. Our own friends don’t know about one another, a secret. I am just afraid to one day wake up and feel used or get hurt. I guess if we make that choice we accept any future consequences…. What do y’all think?

Answer

Ask yourself these questions.  Do I want to sleep with him?  Would I be okay with no strings attached?  Am I okay with sleeping with someone who may see other partners?  Am I okay sleeping with someone who wants to keep it a secret?  Would I catch feelings eventually?  Would this be worth my time?
If you’re able to answer all of these with confidence, go for it. If you have any doubt, don’t do it. The only way you’ll wake up feeling used is if you make it something more than it is.

Answer

Almost as risky as a regular relationship. 
Realistically, yeah you might feel feelings, because you're human and sex tends to be emotional for most people and you'll bond with this person. 
But if you accept the risks and nature of the situation, it's totally fine.

Weekend Sex Buddies? Is it unrealistic?

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