TMI… but I need advice! My fiancé and I haven’t had sex since April. And even then it was only once a month. Before we would do it 8x a day. But then he would say he was too tired. After that we had our planned pregnancy and he said he didn’t want to hurt the baby. (Yes I tried telling him it wouldn’t)

I’ve been cleared at my postpartum checkup but still he hasn’t made any moves. I’ve tried to get him in the mood but he always says to stop and I respect it. I can say with confidence he isn’t cheating. But I feel lonely and he won’t allow me to buy “toys” because it would hurt him enough to leave. besides I’ve never liked master bating.

I’ve also talked to him about it and he’s said we would have sex more often but never follows through. The other day he said “is that all you want me for is sex?” And that hurt but I don’t know what to do or say because it’s not but I want physical love.

He always compliments me and kisses me and touches me but it ends there. . .