Wanting to have a 1 night stand with besties crush. Message him tonight or hold off until event

Ok my bestie has this crush on this guy and this crush will literally probably go nowhere. She’s focusing on herself and he’s emotionally unavailable but she has a crush for the past year on him. Like sometimes they’ll watch each other stories but they haven’t messaged since beginning of year. So I’m thinking of messaging him on Insta for a 1 night stand or do I invite him to an event then hook up there

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