Did we mess up?

Kim • 33• 💍 💕• 👦🏼💙 11/8/17 • ttc w/ secondary infertility • stage 4 endo ✨🤰🏼👶🏼🎀EDD 12.6.24 🌈

Ugh! Ladies I just really need someone to hype me up right now because I feel like this entire cycle is a wash now!

I took letrozole cd3-7 and went for my cd12 ultrasound on Monday and had 2 mature follicles on right side (20 & 23 mm) and lining was a 12. I got a pos opk that morning and bloodwork showed I was surging so my doctor said no trigger shot and go home and bd Monday and Tuesday. Well, hubby could not perform last night! That has never happened before. Idk if he was nervous or felt too much pressure. I feel bad but now I’m also frustrated and upset. We did BD Sunday night and Monday night but would we have had much better chances of we were able to Tuesday as well?

I’m probably overthinking and I know there’s nothing I can do about it now but I just feel like we failed.