We have our C-section scheduled for Oct. 27th. This will be a planned cesarean, my second c-section, my first was unplanned. With that in mind, any tips on how to stay calm and keep an open mind throughout the experience? My biggest worries are not being able to hold the baby soon after she is born and the healing process. This is baby 3 and I am hoping I can still be a good mama to my other two while healing. Any thoughts, tips, or stories are appreciated!