Helppp

My baby father’s family keep demanding to see my baby and I was never ready for them to hold him or anything because I don’t know them. And I want them and his father to give me time. I’m with my baby daddy, but he won’t understand that I don’t trust them.

I was sexually assaulted as a kid for years and I just don’t want the same to happen to him and I want them to stop demanding for him like he is theirs. I tried to make valid points to my baby daddy but he keeps getting mad. What should I do ? I typed a little note out to send to his mom to get her to understand because I didn’t tell any of them about how I feel.