Found out about 3 weeks ago that I’m pregnant with our second.

This was a very much unplanned pregnancy, and in fact I was very much doing my best to prevent.

But here we are now. I realise how insensitive this sounds for those that are struggling with fertility and I feel awful for voicing this, but feel I need some help.

With my first pregnancy (planned) as soon as I found out I was excited, reading everything and making plans. I loved the ‘baby’ from the start.

I’m really struggling however with this one, I don’t feel any attachment, and possibly a little resentment at the minute. I’m worried that these feelings won’t go away.

Can anyone relate?