TW: mensural blood and vagina talk

So in this post I’m going to get really TMI so if you don’t wanna read that leave now. No hate will be tolerated you had your warning.

So I use a mensural cup and I have a heavy flow. I just got the hang of using one and what works best with my body. I absolutely love it (besides that my sink is so far from the toilet). Now I’ve always been really “tight” anytime I get with I guy they ask if I’m sure I’m not a virgin and talk about how they can barley fit 1 finger. Why does this relate to my period? Well because I’m so tight down there I can get my cup out unless I pee first or push it out kinda like I was peeing. It worries me because I don’t want it falling out into the toilet (I’ve had that happen once before) but there is no other way to get it out. I can barley get my fingers up there. Does anyone else use a cup and have this struggle and if so what are some things you did. Being this “tight” is a blessing and a curse.