First time mom*

Is anyone strangely surprised at the lack of a relationship you have with your OB? I blows my mind how rushed my appointments feel. I know she is just doing her job...and don't get me wrong, she is so kind and nice!💕

But I feel like we hardly know each other. When I ask questions about new symptoms her response is always "yup that's normal" and than moves on as she tries to step closer to the door.

Idk I just imagined it to be different..