Girl advice ??

Ok I need some female advice Bc my guy friends think nothing is wrong with this but I’ve been talking to this guy for some months now for about 6 months he lives in another town and I don’t really drive so he only came to see me once we end up having sex the first time he came he has never took me out or anything and I never been to his place so yesterday he asked if he can come see me in a day or two and says that he’ll bring me food if I want and I had told him that I thought we were going out since we have yet to go on a real date and he claims that we’re a couple he gets upset and says “ig I’ll just come when I can take you out” and then he ask if we could have sex if he comes I told him that I feel like I’m being used and he says that he’s not using me… I just want some advice before I get more in my feelings he ard tells me he loves me and all that but I just want to know if it’s true and not just words 😞