I have 4 room mates.

There's a couple, a guy and a girl.

Then there's me and my boyfriend and another girl.

I'll call the other couple James and Allie

And I'll call the other girl Chloe (just making up names here.)

A week ago James and Allie freaked out on me and accused me of coming onto James. Apparently I had bent down while picking stuff up off the floor and he saw down my shirt. I was like y'all are delusional. If I did bend down in front of him I didn't mean to SEDUCE him tf?

Then they apologized for that? I still feel like I have to WATCH what I do and how I move and make sure my shirt doesn't come down too far when I bend over to pick something up and it's fucking ridiculous like I can't even exist without having to make sure they don't have a stroke because they saw down my shirt that just shows my bra? I never intentionally bent down in front of this guy in a way that he'd thinking I'm fucking coming onto him or show him my body. I was probably just picking shit up off the floor.

Last night Chloe was cleaning and bent down. She was wearing shorts and a tank top. Allie said "you need to put some clothes on, my man is uncomfortable." And she was like "uh, no?" And I said "she has clothes on? She can be comfortable in her own home and wear what she wants." And Allie said "it's just fucking disrespectful." And I said "why? She works and pays to live here and is cleaning up your messes and you're griping at her for how she's dressed while she does it." Then Allie came to me and said that her boyfriend has a problem with looking at other women thinking it would make me agree with her and I was like "thats a YOU problem though. why did you move into a house with two other women? You can't just move in and start policing how people dress. We all pay to live here and deserve to feel comfortable in our own home and we shouldn't have to sit here and worry if we are dressed appropriately for YOUR boyfriend because he doesn't have enough self control to at least not check people out infront of you. I don't give a crap if he's uncomfortable or not, I pay to live here and if I want to wear some shorts I will and so will she."

Allie and James are pissed and MY boyfriend wants to have a meeting tonight where we compromise so that we're all comfortable and I'm like how do you compromise with someone who gets mad at you for bending down because they could see down your shirt.

Me and Chloe are like no. Nope. We aren't changing or watching how we move in our own home because dude doesn't have control of himself