Suffering

So my husband just recently brought up the fact that he was upset that we don't have sex more then 1-2 a month. He's so upset that he doesn't even want to see me (aka go stay at a friend's house for the night) my problem is my labido. A few days ago when he brought this up I explained that my body and mind have no thoughts of sex or desire about anything. I decided to make a doctor's appointment to see if something is off or anything I can do. Our child just turned 2 in August and I would probably say it's been 2-21/2 years that my labido has been down or non existent.

He's just been coming home and completely just shuts off towards me . Doesn't say hello or anything. All he has said is that now he's the one who has to suffer because of me. He's suffering in a sexless marriage (still not sexless just saying) I want to want sex and everything but my body is literly saying "I don't want to be touched!"

I have my doctor's appointment booked to figure out what's going on or what I can do to help this situation. I feel like my husband saying he has to "suffer" till I figure it out is just a little much. Is there really much suffering in waiting a little bit longer ? I'm making an effort here without forcing myself to do something I really don't want or feel comfortable doing.