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Guy in the military that I’m talking to asked me if im an organ donor. Could that mean that he’s trying to kill me. I didn’t ask why he asked me tho. I also don’t know him for so long and I found this question weird

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No? Why would that mean he wanted to kill you? Why are you talking to someone if you think he’s trying to kill you?

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I agree its a weird question to randomly ask someone you barely know. I don't think that means he wants to kill you...if he wanted to kill you why would he care about your organ donor status? Lol if you're uncomfortable id just stop talking to him.

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So you responded like : "lol why'd you care? " right? And he told you, "oh just because *reason*"

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My first thought wouldn’t be that he wants to kill you, my first thought would have been why do you need an organ are you OK, not that he’s trying to harvest your organs or kill you, or sell them on the black market or anything like that, he could just be curious, maybe he has a cousin who needs a kidney and wants to see if you’re a match, pretty sure it’s not because he wants to kill you, but I would’ve said why do you ask. Not assume that he wants to kill you.

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🤨 you need help

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Wait what? Also what does him being in the military have to do with anything? Being a veteran myself and my husband being active duty, this is extremely offensive that you’d automatically assume he’s a murderer because he’s military and asked you a random question about organ donation. 🙄

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Well, if he does try and kill you at least you know it’s for a good cause 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Yikes! That’s immediately where your mind goes? Maybe he’s just curious about your ethics and what kind of a person you are? Trust your instincts though if you’re getting murderer vibes 😬

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I wouldnt jump to he wants to kill you. I mean maybe it's a personality qualifier for him. Like you're an organ donor so you clearly care about helping others and that's important to him and is a quality he looks for in his partner. My ex husband was active duty, med lab. I could definitely see that being a question he asked potential dates after divorce. He was an abusive fuck to me, but he was all about donating blood as often and as many times as they'd let him, organ donor, volunteer work. He likely also probably ask what's your blood type, have you had an STD panel run, are you UTD on vaccinations, how often do you donate blood lol. Legit. See those being questions he would ask.

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Um no.... Move on.
That's not a first date type of topic unless you're like drs or something. I would be royally creeped out. Anymore red flags???? If you need to ask random people about this, to me that would be a huge red flag.
After all the military killings in Texas last year I would be very very careful. 
But hey he might be a wonderful guy and just doesn't understand what weird questions are... If you are finding too many questionable personality things just move on girl!!!

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