I need someone help BAD

Am I in the wrong for feeling like this? My husband and I have been together for 5 years (married for 1 1/2) and we rarely have sex. Like maybe 3-4 times a month. We’re 22 & 24 with no kids. It’s been like this for over 2 years now so are sec life is pretty wack (because he never wants to do it). Whenever I need to vent or need a shoulder to cry in he literally tells me I’m a cry baby, calls me every name in the book and makes me feel like even more shit. Will literally sleep out on the couch to make me feel bad. He’s barely ever home. He leaves for work at 7:30 gets out around 6pm then goes and rides his bike til 10. Then he comes home and goes to sleep so we never spend time together. Again because he doesn’t want to. But whenever it comes to his friends he jumps right on it. His friends want to hangout? He’s there. His friends gf just broke up with him and he’s there for him but when it comes to me he treats me like shit. I literally am starting to look at him as just a room mate. What would you guys do? Am I wrong for feeling the way I do????