Do guys take single moms serious

Im a young single mom and ppl keep saying my value decreased bc I have a child. I have to be more independent to increase my self worth. It makes me think about how I used to look before I had a baby now I have mom boobs and mom belly with a baby. I am in school and working on myself after a domestic violence relationship. But it’s like why would a quality guy really want to be with me when he can just find someone without a baby, and a better body. When I reach my goals my goals will be set higher.