Got disrespected

Hi so today I txted my boyfriends daughter today asking her when she going to bring my playstation 4 back because I might sell it and when she's leaving to go see her sister so she txted back asking to stop asking her so I said am not going to stop ask about the playstation its mine she txted back saying its not about the playstation its about you keep asking when am leaving your like a lil kid asking over and over for a toy and am the parent saying no til you get it so I told her not to disrespect me cause am not disrespecting you in anyway and don't call me a lil kid. .. so does anyone think that was disrespect