If your boyfriend of 7 years never had a job or his license and he was 22 would you stay with him?

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I guess it depends what he's been doing. Did he not have a job because he was in college? Or has he just been doing nothing since graduating high school. The license I don't care about Kobe way or the other. There's lots of reasons someone might not have a license

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Why doesn’t he? If he’s never had a job how does he support himself?

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Depends on what he’s been doing and what his goals are. Have you offered to teach him to drive? Has he been in school? Or has he been staying in his parents basement playing video games for 8 hrs a day?

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Its not about not having a job or licenses. Its about what are your life goals? Do u have ambition? Are u a hard worker? Are u on the path to becoming a good husband and father that can support a family eventually? If u just chilling …. And not even thinking about the future…. Its a no.

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Its the never had a job. I got my license at right before 30 but ive been working for myself right of high school and make a great living

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Depends why he doesn’t have a job. The licence to me isn’t nothing. My husbands had a job since we got together nearly 8 years ago but he only started to drive since last year just before covid we both took lessons in 2019 then we stopped then my partner found a new instructor and passed quickly. We’re both 26

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That sounds like a walking carnival of red flags

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Depends has he been trying but life seems to screw him over? Or he refuses to do anything? Does he struggle with disability or mental health?
There many reasons why someone might not be able to drive or work. 
Life screws me over a lot, I'm 24 still working on getting my license. I do have a permit. I struggle with PTSD/mental health and been trying to find a helpful therapist for 5 years with no luck. Might have finally found one but on a waiting list currently so it's a waiting game right now. Jobs I've only had 2, almost any place I applied to won't hire me. I did go cosmetology school but only 2 places give me a chance.  Others said I need more experience to get the job. Sadly first fired me due lack of experience, 2nd wasn't a good fit for me so I quit it. I had carpooling issues and babysitting issues so won't have worked out much longer. 
If he doesn't want to do anything or isn't trying to reach any goals in life. Personally would leave. If he has been trying then I'd try to help in any way possible.

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No... Don't stay with anyone until your engaged/married or have kids... Especially if they can't support themselves lol that's not an option 😂

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Who wants a scrub? No one. 7 years and no license, job, and I'm guessing no higher education either? Lack of motivation and aspirations is very unattractive.