So I love my husband to death. I enjoy seeing him go out with friends to do their nerdy stuff. It’s one of the many things that make him happy. And honestly I don’t ask for much. Just ask for him to be safe, have fun, and if he’s going to stay out later than planned to let me know. I don’t think that’s to much to ask for. Well, he’s out with friends tonight. Been out all day long. No big deal. I knew it was going to happen. I knew he was coming home tonight at 9pm that’s what he has told me. 8:45 ish comes around and I haven’t heard a word from him. He’s a good at most 20-25 minutes away from me so I was a little confused but I brushed it off. 9pm hits and still nothing. So I wait, around 9:20ish I ask what’s going on and he says he’s staying longer to do some of their nerd stuff. Is it wrong of me to be upset that he didn’t communicate with me that he was staying later than what the original plan was? It’s not that I don’t trust him or think he’s cheating it’s the lack of communication that bothers me so much.