Girl Does sex hurt the first time?

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It’s my first time I want it to feel good😩

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If your partner is good or cares about how good you want it to feel it won’t hurt or it won’t be to bad. Steady and slow wins the race the first time 😉

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Nope my first time didn't hurt at all.

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It was slightly painful at first but in a good way? It is a new sensation and could be a little uncomfortable as you’re not used to it. However, if you move around until you find a spot that feels good to you, it shouldn’t hurt. Good luck

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If he prepares you (gets you “wet” with foreplay) it shouldn’t hurt too much. The lubricant that you’ll naturally produce from being aroused will help you take him in a little bit easier. Good luck!

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Please know that most women do not climax from penetration, the climax from clitoral stimulation, my first time was in the backseat of my car, when I was 20, after I already owned a home and couldn’t handle anything that happened, because my mother told me if you get pregnant get the hell out of my house, so I did too. It was discomfort, little achy the next couple of days, but it wasn’t like he ripped me in half or anything like that, some people do tear because that’s usually because they’re not lubricated enough or well stimulated or relaxed. You have to think of your anus or your vagina as a fist. If you make a tight fist, good luck trying to get your finger in there. If you’re relaxed and well lubricated your hand opens up. Your vagina is meant to accommodate a child coming out of it. The more you tighten up and are stressed out and having anxiety and thinking about all the what if‘s and what could happen how can you enjoy yourself. If you go slow and you take your time and are well stimulated and relaxed and he doesn’t just jam it Inside of you or bang on your cervix, or you have some thing that would cause pain such as endometriosis or PCOS or vaginismus, etc. then you probably shouldn’t be a painful experience. Just make sure you take your time make sure you’re well lubricated, relax, and just let your body open up basically. Make sure you go slow, make sure he doesn’t go too deep and bang on your cervix, make sure you are well protected, both condoms and birth-control, being preventative is your best decision, pulling out, is not a good form of protection because obviously there’s room for human error, not pulling out quick enough, etc. you’re basically playing Russian roulette hoping you don’t get pregnant or an infection or anything else. Make sure you urinate after sex to wash out any bacteria so you don’t get a urinary track infection, Plan B is not meant to be used as a form of birth control it’s for emergencies only, it can cause all kinds of problems, including pulmonary embolism, please get on an a form of birth control before you have sex, and use condoms Semen can throw off your pH levels. I would go with a non-latex condom just in case you have a latex allergy reaction. Lifestyle skins which they sell at every pharmacy or Walmart target etc. is my go to brand. It’s latex free, just Incase. Be safe, be careful, your life, your sexual health, your mental health, this is your responsibility, remember he can disappear and leave you hanging with infections or pregnancy or anything else. I wouldn’t wish a pregnancy scare on my enemy, or miscarriages, or anything else that I’ve been through.￼￼￼￼ it’s probably not gonna be like the movies, I could be awkward and sweaty banging teeth, you may not climax, it may be very quickly because he’s also new to this and doesn’t know how to control it, with time and experience, things get better. But first time with most people is usually not the best, because you don’t know what works for each other. Or you may not even know what works for you. Can’t really tell somebody what works if you don’t know for yourself. You may have to figure it out first, so you can show him. ￼

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Nope didn’t hurt one bit. It felt good but not absolutely amazing like you think it will. Don’t get your hopes up!

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Not if you have a patient man and you guys have communicated well and go slow working up to everything. There might be a little bit of pain when he first puts it in but it should be very minor (think like when someone massages a right spot on your back) but it should get better immediately if you’ve taken your time. Good luck!