For moms of more than one child I’m looking for advice. I had a vaginal birth with my first and had a 3rd degree almost 4th degree tear. The recovery was awful I could barely walk for weeks and was in so much pain it was hard to watch a newborn. I was a full 6 months before I was starting to be back to myself physically. This time around the dr has offered me a c-section but I know there can be complications with that as well. Looking for advice and maybe some c section experiences?