I hate when people do this and I guess it’s because I can’t wrap my head around it. My husbands friends are all a few years older than me. I’m 21 and they are all about 23-25. Only other difference is that husband and I live in an apartment together and they all still live at home living with wealthy families, not having to worry about paying for anything. They don’t understand that my husband and I work our asses off for rent, groceries and other bills and question why we can’t afford other things. These are friends of his that their families kind of just buy them their own cars and whatever else they want. My husband and I both grew up with families who also struggled financially so we never got any sort of help for the things we have now. Like we truly worked our asses to work for what we have now. So it bothers me when they feel the need to degrade us for not having much. I know another girl who likes to occasionally talk to me, she also comes from a wealthy family, she’s 21, works a full time job making good money herself, and she doesn’t have to worry about paying a dime or any of her money. Her family bought her a house and continues to pay for all household needs while she just works spending her money on what she wants. And she gets upset that I can’t financially afford to hang out with her because she wants to go hang out at the mall and somehow seems so bothered that I’m not buying anything. Gets so bothered that I have an apartment and how she’s so lucky that she can have her own home that she doesn’t host for.