I go on vacation, I’ve been looking forward to vacation for months, my first day drove 8 hours with my 18 month old and just as I’m about to get where I’m staying my bd pitches an unholy fit because I didn’t bring our baby to him first. We go back and forth for about an hour then I finally relent and drive an extra hour and a half to go see him… when I get there he admits he overreacted and apologized. We talked about and patched it up. Seeing him wasn’t the only reason I drove 8 hours. I’m trying to get a divorce after I get all the paperwork set and ready to sign and my soon to be ex told me that he just got sick after I saw him the other day and he was fine and helping me fill out the paperwork. Now I know when he gets sick he’s sick, and I can’t take chances with whatever he’s got…. I’m all kinds of pissed off