For those of unfamiliar with the term Weaponized incompetence means “Doing a task poorly so your spouse will pick up the slack, asking 100 questions about how it’s done, never really learning how to do a domestic task well.”

My husband has been REAL bad at this and it just got worse! Last night I assign a simple task... take the kids to your mom, leave them with the juice and snacks in the trunk. We have a disabled child that has ALOT of different appointments this week thus the reason for us needing a sitter. He parks in the handicap spot as he should because he did have our disabled child with him. I walk out the next morning I have no car! My first thought was he forgot to put the disability placard in the rear view, I found the tow company and paid $500 dollars then I get a call from his mom that she had asked for juice and snack for the kids but don't have any. I'm confused so I check the trunk and behold.... there is the juice and snacks I told him to leave with them. I'm not angry more confused than anything cuz why do you lack your parental instinct???? His response was projecting then he ultimately said he needs help.....

Anyone....

Sorry thought I was clear the car got towed, it was in the handicap spot without the proper documentation. In the beginning of our marriage I did hold his hand alot so when this started happening I started coming up with ways to involve him for almost two years now he still ask me the same questions and the same instructions Every. Single. Time!