I’m a FTM, baby is due in a few weeks and I’m just curious how do you NOT end up bed sharing? I know that I’m personally a very active sleeper, I toss and turn and flip all over, my husband tells me I punch and kick him often. So obviously I don’t want my new born anywhere near me in bed. I see so many people say they bed share after never wanting to or that bed sharing was their only option. It’s starting to scare me. I have a bedside bassinet and a crib for him that we intend on using. Why do so many moms find bed sharing the only option? Is there an actual safe way to do it? Any advice!?