I am very happy to say I am pregnant with my 4th child (this will be our last) but it was not planned because we wanted to have more time in between the kids. My sister has been trying to get pregnant for a year and I'm so scared of how she will react when we finally tell people we are expecting. I know being around our kids is hard for her because she so badly wants one of her own.

We plan on keeping it to ourselves as long as we can, but I'm worried this will devastate her.