I’m a very grounded person and my gf is just different. I know opposites attract each other but in this case there are things I really don’t enjoy in which we differ a lot. I’m one to believe that going partying ALL the time (every weekend at least, even some week days) is for single people, specially when you’re long distance relationship and well… you’re always going clubbing without your partner??? I understand if we would be going together but… we live in different states.

I have mentioned this being an issue for me to her in 3 occasions already. She doesn’t have a lot of friends and the only ones she has, like to go clubbing everyyy weekenddd.. EVERY. SINGLE. WEEKEND. It is uncomfortable for me because in my perspective she exposes herself to the world like she is single by doing this all the time. I know if temptation comes, me being there or not.. there is nothing I can do to avoid her from cheating, if someone cheats, they will cheat. Even though she reminds me every day that I’m the one for her, I still feel uncomfortable, I’m trying to trust her but when people drink, sometimes we do things we don’t mean to do. I also don’t want her to stop doing what makes her happy, just because it makes me uncomfortable. After all, those are the only plans her friends are down to do and those are the only friends she has (3).

What would be the best thing to do? Should I just suck it up? (That’s what I’ve been doing anyway jajaja) or should I just back off and tell her to burn up the phase of partying and come back when she’s ready?