Restraining order

I’m pregnant and had a restraining order on my children’s father. A temporary one and then he got one on me. I went out and saw his brother and his brother told me to leave because he was there so I left. But he’s been seeing this Girl who has messaged me telling me that she’s gonna move herself in or nothing and right after she said that she was with him the next day so I have texted her to have a conversation with her I’ve seen her driving I have tried to beat my horn at her to get her attention. Contacting her is that violating the straining order even though I’m not contacting her about his whereabouts or doing?