So my husband and I just had a baby. She is. 2 months old. I feel I do 90% of the work. I am still on maternity leave while he has been working 6-8 days straight working 11 hours. I try not to say too much because I know he is tired. But I’m at home with the baby all day. When she is sleeping I’m cleaning. When he comes home he plays his game until it’s time to go to bed. So while he plays the game I get the baby ready for bed. I bathe her, feed her, rock her to sleep. He helps out at night by feeding her and changing her. So I put her back to sleep. When I comes home from work I would like just a little break. But he doesn’t want to hold her. He tells me to put her down in the swing (while he plays the game basically ignores her). Then she cries because he is not paying attention to her. He talks to her for a little bit then goes back playing the game. He doesn’t offer to get her I have to tell him to. He complains that I hold her too much and it’s aggravating. When she cries at night sometimes he will get aggravated with her. So yesterday when he got home he held her then she just started crying so I got her back and she stopped. One time he said to me parenting is babysitting… I honestly feel like he is doing a part time job as a parent. Then sometimes when she cries . He says she only wants me. I would like for him to rock her to sleep sometime but he kinda tried for a couple of minutes and then gave up and said she doesn’t want me and I can’t do it because I don’t know how. I said just keep trying. Maybe I’m being selfish for asking him to help. Also, when he is off he plays the game all dayyyy. I’m with the baby all day. He doesn’t try to get to do things by practicing he will let me do it. I have to cook, clean, take care of the baby, the animals . Then he wants sex at the end of the day. Maybe I’m asking for too much… once I start back work I know I will feel more overwhelmed than I already am.