I’m talking to this guy and he’s not a virgin but I am and we’re gonna go out on a date, I want to kiss him etC but I don’t want to be boring and he’s done more so I think anything but sex would bore him but I don’t want to have sex with him yet. Can I still be exciting and arousing even if we don’t have sex?

He’s been really respectful when we talk about how we both feel about sex and I don’t think he would cut me off but I feel like he won’t be super into me if we just make out on this date and not have sex