I feel so defeated

I feel so defeated

So me and my husband got a store back in 2017 and everything was going good. His mom was never involved. She worked at a factory and everything was so peaceful.

I was pregnant with my son and was baking/making products for the store since I was about to be a stay at home mom.

My MIL noticed how good the store was picking up and then wanted to be involved by working there. I told my husband it wouldn’t be a good idea. She quit her job and then joined the store.

I noticed my stuff wasn’t selling as much and then noticed the reason it “wasn’t selling” was because she was adding more stuff to my products. Going behind my back making the same stuff as me.

This has been going on every since 2017 and two kids and one on the way later. I’m still defeated over this. Every single time I bring it up to my husband he has a tantrum. She works at the store and make $1,000 a week, commission and money from the stuff she sells— I don’t even sell my stuff anymore because I got fed up with it— only for my MIL to go behind my back, once again to help my sister in law and tell her she can sell stuff at the store.

Like who’s store is this? This isn’t a family store with just my husband and our family. It’s ALL about her. She doesn’t even have to pay her bills, her kids pitch in and help. She doesn’t have to worry or struggle and I’m a stay at home mom… she doesn’t even spend time with her grandkids or buy them anything…

But every single time I tell my husband that we need to talk about his mom he has a cow!!

I feel so defeated 😭

And I know there will probably be people saying, “well come up with something else” I have and she goes behind my back and figured out a way to make it.. and besides, I feel like she’s in the wrong 1000000%

I’m just about to door dash or something… being 9 months pregnant. My husband hates when I use the card and how am I supposed to go out and have fun with the kids if I’m always at home with them.? It’s sad. I hate how greedy his mom is… and how my husband has become