broke clit?

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no judgement please. so i started masturbating at a fairly young age. i started masturbating by putting blankets between my legs and essentially humping them. i would do that while i watched porn and after 20-30 minutes, i would always orgasm. to this day, that’s how i masturbate because it’s a guarantee orgasm. i have tried rubbing my clit with just my fingers, and i have tried using the rose clit sucking vibrator (which makes me squirt but it feels like overbearing electric shocks) and the most it’ll do is feel alright/somewhat good. it never gets me to orgasm though.
well during sex, i notice that my clit does get more sensitive and “harder” when i’m aroused. but whenever my bf rubs it, it either doesn’t feel that good or it kind of hurts? like if he rubs it fast, it’s like a super sensitive “burning”. like the burn you feel when something is overly sensitive? anyways idk what to do. i don’t mind not orgasming during sex because i still find sex fun without. especially since i could always masturbate and make myself cum afterwards. but it would be nice to orgasm during sex and not have to fake it. i just have no idea how to achieve my orgasm during actual sex. i feel like my way of masturbating kind of broke my clit😞

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My hubby since day one hasn't been able to touch my clit because it's way to sensitive and it makes me not feel aroused at all but I have my husband do a lot of different positions to get it were he hits the spot and some of the positions we do I don't even know how I get in them lol but it works and I orgasm everytime and cum at least 5times and we got 6 to 8 rounds a day. You just have to be creative and hope your bf is interested

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Is it possible that you’ve become dependent on vibration or sucking sensation from a machine in reality and you were having a hard time climaxing manually, that happened to me when I used to use vibrators on my clitoris, I became dependent on and I wasn’t able to climax manually for about three months it took me to get used to it all over again. A lot of times women have a hard time climaxing with their partner, from penetration alone, most women climax from clitoral simulation. However you know what works for you, you know what speed what pressure what works. Your boyfriend or husband may not know what exactly works. And therefore it gets overly stimulated. When it comes to a man, you can start that build up, and if you stop, it goes back to normal back to how it was before, a man can have that build up more than once, with a woman, you get one shot, if you don’t make it that shot, it begins to hurt or feel painful etc. when you lose that momentum. Perhaps you need to incorporate sex toys when you’re having sex, say hey can we try something different, and said how about we try blank. Or my friend so-and-so said that she tried this with her boyfriend and had a really great time, can we try it. Or I saw it in a movie, and I thought we could try it. You just have to figure it out unfortunately. There are a lot of women who’ve never climax with your partner, sure it feels good, but never actually get over the mountain. Sometimes it’s psychological, sometimes it’s physical, some women can’t climax at all on their own or with a partner. I hope things get better for you.

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tru a vibrator with adjustable speeds. the rose sucking one makes me nervous.

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I have the same exact history with you. I’ve never had a man bring me to orgasm. I always have to rub my clit in order to orgasm or use toys. I wish I had some advice. I would also like to orgasm during sex but I’ve tried everything :(

broke clit?

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