My brother in law is getting married at the end of March and the wedding is a few hours away. My husband is the best man so we need to be there the night before for rehearsal dinner activities and then obviously the night of the wedding. Originally I planned on leaving my 3 year old and my then 1 year old with my parents, but now I'm feeling so nervous about that and I really don't want to. I've spent the night away from my 3 year old a few times, and he's stayed with my parents. My Feb baby is mostly breastfed but will take a bottle and some solids. I just don't know if I want to leave them for 2 nights. So the alternative would be to take them with us but then I wouldn't be able to partake in much of the evening activities (rehearsal dinner or wedding reception.) Curious what your thoughts are? Had anyone been in similar situations? Being a mom is hard! Thanks!