How did you know your relationship was over? We have a 2 year old and have been together for 4 years. (Longest relationship I’ve ever had btw) I love this man but I don’t feel like he loves me anymore. Not affectionate anymore, we don’t even argue anymore. We sometimes don’t sleep in the same bed, I sleep in the guest room with our daughter she sleeps till midnight and he goes to bed at 10. So I don’t want her to keep him up. He gets home and I either have school or homework (getting phd). I have to be the one to initiate sex, we do not go out we normally never did (homebodies). When we are together it’s just laying on the couch, I have to reach for his hand. I don’t know seems like there’s no physical affection anymore. We haven’t had this conversation it’s just in my head. Is our relationship done? Or can we work it out. How did you know it was done for you?