Do you have opposite sex friends?

Hi everyone, it’s so hard for me to keep my guy friends. Do you really have friends that’s are the opposite sex? My guy friends either have their gfs who do not want them talking to me or my guy “friends” would flirt joke with me so when I tell them I’m dating someone they ghost me.

My bf has a few gfs that he talks too and I don’t understand why it’s so hard for me.

I’ve never had a guy friend because they wanted more or because of their gfs..

It hurts that I see my bf with his friends but I don’t have any my own & I don’t really get along w girls so I only have two gfs