I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I feel like we’re growing apart. I don’t think we have the same interests anymore. I like wondering off in the city, live musicals, playing football, rollercoasters, video games, and he doesn’t like any of that. And what he likes to do, like going to parties, I hate. There’s NOTHING that we do together as an actual couple. We haven’t been on a date in a year. We just text throughout the day and FaceTime for a couple minutes. Im also big on marriage and he isn’t. He said he’d marry me if that’s what I wanted but I feel that marriage shouldn’t be a compromise for him. I wanted to move out of state and he wouldn’t even consider it. I wanted to get our own place together and he entertained the idea but wasn’t serious about it. I’m just stuck. I talked to him about breaking up and he didn’t want too. He keeps saying that things have changed only because of his new time demanding job and that they will go back to “normal”. But even when things were “normal”, we didn’t spend time together like couples do. He lives 10 minutes away and I was barely seeing him. And at that point, he had said he didn’t want marriage but apparently now he does (if it’s what *I* want). He didn’t even spend his days off with me, said he needed his personal time but then went partying with friends and it happened all the time. Valentine’s Day he went out partying with a cousin. Our anniversary, we ate separately. I love the thought of married life & family life and he seems to be very much just into himself. I love him but I don’t think we’re good together anymore.