I’m a stay at home mom, I have 3 kids. With time I know my body has changed I haven’t been feeling like myself lately and my husband makes it worse for me. Even though he “jokes” around those jokes still hurt me because he doesn’t know how hard I try to workout or how hard I try to work on my self it’s hard and he will say to my kids “ you’re moms a what?, a cow” but in Spanish and I laugh but deep down it hurts me when he makes jokes like this to me. Or like “you’re so heavy” “you’re going to eat again” just things like that. I was skinnier before of course but now with kids I have gained weight I feel like his also not affectionate much like hugs or anything he only wants to get close when he wants to have sex. Other then that his not very affectionate. He would never ever tell me those type of stuff but once I gained weight it started. Like he doesn’t know how bad it hurts me it’s mentally hurts as well. I can say his an amazing father and husband he always buys us whatever we want and will buy me flowers and take us out all the time. I just wish emotionally he would be there because he isn’t he isn’t affectionate either and it sucks you know 🥺💔