What do I do! How long can I be a supportive wife for over 10 years ! He does not have a steady 9-5 and brings in no income. He always has money for weed but never a bill. He makes clothes online ( newly started) and wants to be a producer. He has alot of networking on Facebook and social media but still no income. He recently reached out to some chick on a Facebook group who was looking to have some music produced. ( he has a history of infidelity) I don’t see and understand why he would think it would be cool to reach out to some random chick online for music help in a “studio” he is more focused on social media and music and this website he has started than me and our kids. Like light and gas and water and basic necessities are free or I have to do it alone. Had major car trouble and paid for the repairs alone. As my husband I expect more of a go get it attitude . He puts more energy into his website and online loving and liking potential music clients and messaging them than our home. I feel like he should make sure his home is ok before he starts venturing off with a business and he has no job or income and can’t help his wife pay a light bill. His dad has a credit card that he got him and his dad pays the bill and is in charge of the credit limit . This man is 36 and his dad takes care of him basically. Yet he looks at me like I’m asking for too much or that he’s trying hard to find a job and provide more. But I just don’t see it. I’m so stressed and tired and turned off by him ! I need help and he can’t give me help. He wakes up and he is on his iPad and phone on his websites or on social media. No job no nothing. It’s been two years.. sorry for the long post but I had to vent and there’s so much more . I’m just depressed y’all 😢